The Law of Detachment
As we discussed earlier, the law of attraction works in conjunction with other “laws” in order to manifest the things that you want from life. The law of attraction, the law of deliberate creation and the law of allowing were the first three in our 7 part series. Next up is the law of detachment which states that in order to acquire anything in the physical Universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it. In other words, you need to let go of the outcome and detach from expectations.
This does not mean that you have to create by default or that you should not desire or intend for what you want to create. Detachment comes from having an abundance consciousness because you trust and know that everything will fall into the perfect place and time.
Yes, it is one of nature’s best paradoxes. To attract what you want into your life, you need to think positively about it, expect it to happen, and take inspired action steps toward it, but you also need to detach yourself from the outcome. At this point, you may be saying, “What?”
Here’s the thing. You need to hold the why and let the Universe carry the how. Focus on the positive reasons of why you want what you are trying to attract, but trust that the Universe knows best how to make it happen. It’s actually quite beautiful once you understand it because you pretty much delegate it over to the Universe, and then you simply open yourself up to accept the nudges that the Universe sends to you. It is very freeing to let the how go since most of us agonize over that part, and it is also much less stressful because if you pay attention, the Universe will tell you what to do every step of the way. You’ll find yourself meeting the right people, being in the right places at the right times, and feeling inspired to take action.
You’ve probably heard the saying, “If you want something, let it go.” That’s the law of detachment! The reason it works is because when you are struggling to make something happen, you are doing just that – struggling. You get stressed, worn out and frustrated, and in that state, nothing good can come to you. But when you trust in the Universe, you allow it to use all of its Universal knowledge and “magic” to make it happen for you in a joyful way.
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When I was a kid I was captivated by the movie “Carrie”. Not by the infamous pigs blood that was dumped on Sissy Spaceks’ character, which made her look extra scary, but by the underlining topic; the phenomenon know has psychokinesis, sometimes referred to as “telekinesis” or the ability to influence the movement of matter or energy through mental processes.
In the movie, an insecure introvert named Carrie, discovers quite by accident that when she concentrated hard enough or was mad enough, she could move objects with her mind. I remember how intrigued I was by the way the movie intertwined a scientific possibility with the macabre.
Once Carrie discovers her power and realizes it’s not the work of the devil, but an actual ability that many other people have claimed to have had, she started making a few changes in her life. Im thinking maybe that kind of power is a pretty good confidence booster! =)
Obviously this is a super exaggerated tale of mind over matter, but as a little girl, I was fascinated by the concept of telekinesis, I mean come on, what kid wouldn’t be? So just like in the movie, I set out to find out more on the subject in my local library. To my surprise, there was quite a bit of scientific study on the topic.
I tried for about a week to move things with my mind, and guess what? Nothing happened- lol!……. But that little experiment planted a seed that stayed with me as I grew up into young adulthood. I began to expand my vision of what the powers of the mind could actually mean if it were even remotely possible to effect matter (clumps of energy) just by thinking it.
Could it also be possible to move situations or circumstances with the mind? Or what about the people in our lives or events? Was it also feasible to say that we as human beings were born with this incredible ability, and quite naturally use this power to create everything in our lives without even being aware that we are doing it?
My mind was spinning with the possibilities. All of my inquiries ultimately lead me to the understandings and beliefs that I carry with me today. Things that I have witnessed in my own life as well as others, and the various metaphysical teachings I have studied, literally changed the way I viewed the my life and the world around me.
So what’s my point?
I said of that to say this: You have the power to create whatever you want in life. If you look around you and look closely, you will see that you have in your world everything you have ever desired or believed you could have. If you discover you don’t like what you see or what you’ve created, you are the only one responsible for it, and the only one who can change it. You have used the power of thought your whole life, whether you were aware of it or not. You are a creative being; your thoughts along with your beliefs create your world, good or bad.
“Success is not by accident, it’s on purpose”
There is so much power in knowing that you and you alone have the ability to manifest your hearts desire. When you understand this truth, nothing is impossible to you. It’s the reality behind “telekinesis”.
To bring this more closer to home…. If you are struggling in your business, relationships or in any area of your life, your success or ability to create the thing you want is determined by 4 main factors.
1. What do you want?
2. How bad do you want it?
3. How much do you believe you can have it, or deserve to have it? (this is a big one)
4. And how focused are you?
In a nutshell, success doesn’t just happen by accident you have to create it. If you don’t know what you want, it will be impossible to picture it in your mind clearly enough to manifest it. If you don’t have the sufficient desire, or if it’s just a wish or hope, it won’t be strong enough to get you off the couch. If you don’t believe you can have/deserve it, you will quickly sabotage your efforts. If you lack focus and determination, you will be easily distracted and give up at the slightest bit of resistance.
Remember, success isn’t reserved for a special sect of people, the power to move mountains lies within you!
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The Power Of Visualization
When you’ve decided that you really want to bring your business to the next level, one of the most essential things you can do to manifest this more quickly is visualize the outcome you desire.
Visualization is like a roadmap or blueprint for your business. It is what shows the Universe what you want.
If you are unable to visualize or create a mental picture of what you want with great detail, this is most likely telling you that you are unsure of what it is that you really want to create, and if you aren’t sure what you want, how can the Universe possibly deliver, right? That would be like going to a restaurant and telling the waiter you don’t know what you want, but you know you want something good. The chef would have no idea what to make you. He wouldn’t know what ingredients you like or don’t like. He wouldn’t know where to start and what to end up with.
I can tell you that, the top earners in the online and network marketing industry had very clear and precise visions of what they wanted. I know when I first started in my business, my vision was all over the place and so was my marketing. I accomplished very little at that time because of lack of vision. This is why I can’t stress enough the importance of having a laser focused idea of what you want your business to look like.
When you want to make a change in your business, see the end result and work backwards.
You need to see it in your mind’s eye. You need to feel it in your body. You need to make the vision so bright and detailed that there is no question as to what you want. You have to turn it from a general desire to a specific vision.
While you are visualizing, you will start to feel as though you already have it, and your mind will start to get programmed to believe you already have it. The more we feel what it feels like to have what we want, the more easily and quickly we can attract it to ourselves. This is the Law of Attraction in Action!
You might have a memory that feels like a real memory, but it really was just a dream or something that you imagined. For example, there have been times in my life that I have prepped myself in my mind as to how I would handle a certain situation, and although that situation never actually happened, the more I mused over it, the more it felt like it really was happening.
That’s because visualization is a powerful thing. It trains the brain to get what it is visualizing, and at the same time, it sends a message to the Universe-almost as if you have put in a special order. This is yet another reason why we should be careful of what you think on!
To increase the power of visualization, you might create a vision board, which is essentially a collage of images and words depicting what you want. The act of making a vision board is almost magical. It is almost like having your own personal genie in a bottle. And when you have the end result, you can hang it in a place where you can look at it often to help you continue to visualize your goal.
Give it a try and let me know how it works for you!
There are a few methods that I use to help me discipline my mind to visualize more effectively. One of those tools is called Brainwave Entrainment. It works amazingly well, in fact, I use it while I’m writing my articles- kind of like now!… It really works to keep me focused and literally immune to distractions.
I wish there was a sexy word for brainwave entrainment…it sounds like some kind of medical procedure! I know a few people that get weirded out by it, LOL!
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The law of polarity states that everything in the Universe has a polar opposite. This duality is what makes it possible for us to experience life as we do, for without experiencing what is bad, how can we know what is good; without experiencing sadness, how can we experience happiness; without experiencing failure, how can we experience success? In reality, these opposites work together for the greater good.
To master this law, you must first understand that although there are two extremes of each thing, those extremes form a unity, and that unity means that each opposite is simply a different degree of the same thing. At the same time, you must understand that these extremes are only experienced through perception. Since everything on this planet has an equal opposite, and we experience each through our perception, it is up to us to choose what side of the pole we want to experience.
The positive end of the poles contain the higher frequency vibrations, while the negative end holds the lower frequency vibrations. By bringing your attention to the higher frequencies, you attract more of the higher frequencies to yourself, and you therefore transform your reality. The reality you are currently living is merely a compilation of the perceptions you have chosen up to this point. Shift your perception and you shift your reality.
Without one, we would not have the other. It does no good to put energy toward wishing the dark side of light didn’t exist. Instead, by choosing to see the light, you will experience less darkness. You must realize that there really is no darkness; there is just an absence of light. This holds true for each pole that exists. There is no sadness, simply an absence of happiness. There is no bad, simply an absence of good. Each negative end of the spectrum is simply a lack of the positive, therefore all that you have to do is to bring more of the positive into your life so that you experience less of the negative.
If you want to succeed in your home business or something any thing, you must realize that failure and success are the same thing, just at opposite poles, therefore the potential for both exists. By bringing your focus to the positive side of the spectrum, you bring it into being. Instead of resisting failure, accept success. Resistance and acceptance are polar opposites, therefore any time you are resisting something, you are perceiving the negative end of the spectrum, and any time you are accepting what is, you are thriving at the positive end of the spectrum. Resisting brings your attention to the negative pole and accepting brings your attention to the positive pole. Always remember that.
There is no good or bad – it is all in how we perceive. The key to the law of polarity is to not resist that which you don’t desire. Instead, accept it and move your thoughts to what it is that you do desire.
The law of polarity is a blessing. It exists so that we can experience life to the fullest, and it provides us with the opportunity to choose our path in life. When you can bring the energy of acceptance to everything that shows up in your life and understand that everything works together for the greater good, you will shift your perception, which will in turn shift your reality. The gift that the law of polarity provides is a solution to every problem.